Women In Peligro.identificar Violence

The statistics and news from the world about family violence and gender violence, show that every day increases the victims of this violence, and unfortunately many of them die. Without going any further, in Argentina in the past fortnight there were 7 cases of women "and burned alcochol sprayed with" three of them died. This appalling violence is killing women in very cruel ways, their perpetrators are arrested etc, but the situations are time later, or the abuser walks free and returns to threaten or attack, or is detained for years but do not really know how come out of his conviction, if cured (therapy through) or not, thus surviving victim is emotionally disturbed and living in a state of hypervigilance and anxiety that worsens their already very hurt psychological situation. Not to mention aquelllas physical traces are left with broken bones and scars from burns, which must contend for years of their lives in rehabilitation.

Logic tells us that we see clearly who we share our lives and see signs of violence is essential to talking about these cases. However, "blind love these women," many are so in love that usually the first year with this man not realize that in the future may use violence against her. Many do not want to see when they realize minimally any indication, such as verbal abuse, insults, or some controls in dating. These women may not hear the words of people who have lived through these experiences. Maybe their mothers themselves are warning them (because they want their daughters to pass pain) but not heard. Or perhaps and most likely are women who grew up in a home where violence was emotional, verbal and even physical, so that anger for having grown up there, makes them not want to listen to their battered mothers.

If you grew up in a violent home, the logical, rational, would not repeat the story of your parents, yet the facts show that if you're repeating all or some of your childhood experience. The father image of abuse has been recorded in You're unconsciously and certainly a man like your father. It's hard to admit this, but you need to heal this trauma as a child affect your self esteem and channel your love life, freeing you from emotional and verbal violence as physical violence.

You regain your dignity and well worthy of you attract people. Follow these tips to help you for your recovery:

Know thyself. Going through this process is not easy because often see within us causes us pain or other emotions, but do not be afraid autoconocerte. This process makes you a safe and dignified woman misma.Lidera you your life. Lead your thoughts and actions. You have the ability and freedom to choose what to feel. Choose to have positive goals and cancels all that has not sirvieron.Confía you in your approach and believe in yourself. You have to decide for yourself and not expect or ask the opinion of another. You have the ability to correct what is wrong and incorporate new healthy beliefs verdaderas.Dedica yourself time. Enjoy moments of loneliness for you and use them to meet you, do things you enjoy and relax. Do not fear because the fear of loneliness can lead to codependency formes.Pon partner in implementing these steps will guide you to find your way to recover your self-esteem, recognize and heal your past and free you from emotional or psychological violence .

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